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Rich and his girls

I need to note the amazing relationship that Rich has with all of his girls. He is so proud of his daughters and loves spending time with them. Since Rich's love language is quality time, his favorite time has been the times he has shared with all of us. He loves playing games. Settlers, Chess, Can't Stop, Backgammon, Risk, Monopoly, Uno, Ticket to Ride, Zap (or Farkle), Yahtzee, and Sequence are some of his favorites. All the time the girls were growing up, Rich would spend hours playing games with them. When we lived with the Watsons, he loved to walk Levi and Hazel with Becca. He loved helping Hollie unload hay for Gigi and going on long hikes with Hollie and Van and Lou. He adored skiing with Kelly at Bogus Basin. Rich and I used to play games, read, take walks, look at Open Houses, talk, go out to eat, and generally do everything together. Although we can't do all of those things now, I am thankful for the memories. He is still my best friend. We are so grateful for the years of enjoying activities together.

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