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Togetherness and Sweet Fellowship


One thing that I've learned throughout our journey with dementia is that there is no straight trajectory or path with this disease! I blogged about Rich's difficult day last week and two days later, he was more clear minded. We enjoyed the sweetest time of prayer together on Friday night. Rich led in prayer (it was his idea) which doesn't happen too much anymore. He was articulate and gave testimony to his trust that God has a plan and direction in his life and it includes this disease. The time together was such a balm to my soul! It is difficult to be the one who makes all the decisions and leads us spiritually, physically, emotionally, and financially every day. I felt that I was able to "take the day off" for a bit and have Rich support me. What a blessing it was - the fellowship with my beloved was so sweet.

We have continued to have an amazing week! Rich, Becca, and I had a precious time of conversation on Tuesday night. Rich was involved in the conversation - asking questions and making comments. The time together was such a gift! Last night Henry asked us if we would like to play UNO with him. He had been playing it on the computer with online friends and it reminded him of how much fun the game was to play. So, Becca, Henry, Jack, Rich, and I spent a couple of hours of hilarity playing UNO. What a great way to bond, laugh, and chase away the blues!! We laughed so hard at the boys antics that we cried! What bliss!

I am so grateful that God is with me and supports me everyday (whether Rich is clear minded or not). He sent His son, Jesus Christ, to die for me - to provide forgiveness and a way to the cross through His Son! He will not leave or forsake me and He uses our situation to bring good into our lives and hopefully encourage others in the process. Jesus is the Truth, the Life, and the Way! No one comes to the Father except through Him.

"God—His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is pure. He is a shield to all who take refuge in Him. Psalm 18:30 (HCSB)


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CaroLouise said…
What a lovely gift from the Lord!
April 29, 2021 at 5:33 PM
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